Ok, I know I am a bad blogger...but I have a plea to anyone who might still be reading...my IUI #2 was a BFN and now the questions begin. You see, because I never thought it would take me this long to get pregnant, I never thought I would have this decision to make. A while back I was accepted into an accelerated nursing program that lasts one year. I have been thinking of doing this for quite sometime, in fact, I didn't start the program last year because I had just found out I was pregnant...oops.
Anyway, I have a regroup meeting with my RE on Monday to ask her questions...but if we are facing IVF I would really like to hear from people who have gone through it as to what kind of time commitment I am looking at. School is basically like a full time job, so it is not like 100 hours a week or anything but I am just so torn. If I go, at least I will be moving forward with something in my life...I am just scared I will be risking not getting pregnant again...of course I could not go and still not get pregnant. The program starts in May, I will be 32 in November, which is something else to consider.
Any and all thoughts will be greatly appreciated....by both me and my sanity!
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Ok, I'm not so sure what a BFN is... BUT, I think that having a baby is very important to a happy and complete life. I definitely think that you should put that first in your life. I see that you have had trouble in the past but keep trying. When it happens and you are holding your beautiful baby in your arms, you will be so thankful what life has handed you! You deserve a blessing...
That's a hard one but for me I would look at it this way. What is more importnat to you? If you end up pregnant and lose out on the nursing program will you always regret not going??? or would you regret going into the program if you end up not having children and wonder what if I hadn't? To be honest this isn't a tough one for me... I would focus on starting a family... you can never assume it'll happen later. But I'm sure other nursing programs will come your way. Just my opinion :-) I'm sorry about your recent BFN. I'm also sorry you have to make this kind of decision. I know how tough it is. I'm a teacher and had to stop working so I could get the time off for all of our treatments.
-Faith
I'm sorry for the BFN Click. As for taking the nursing program while doing ART, I think it's managable. I'd go for it. Because it also helps that we have things to preoccupy us during the ART wait. It's all about time management and I agree with Faith, it's what matters to you. Take both if you could handle it!
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